Since he was living alone in his big house and also unwell, we needed more than a housemaid. In fact, he had been depressed when she was still ailing. When Grandma passed away, Grandpa was very depressed. To some people, I wish it were that easy. Perhaps you are wondering, “What for? Shouldn’t the past stay in the past?” How do I begin? I’ve been considering (and reconsidering) telling this story.